Why can't you just send me my password?

We don't store passwords in plain text format like many sites do. All passwords are encrypted in the database that even the FetLife gods themselves cannot decipher. We do this because your security, and ours, is important to us!

What we can do is send you a temporary password to allow you to log in and change it yourself! (We're all about the do-it-yourself thing - that's why John falls asleep with a bottle of lube in his hand...). Send us an email to support@fetlife.com.